Coping with a traumatic event can be difficult for an individual and
his/her loved ones. This brochure is being provided to you to offer information
and assist in the recovery process.
Acute Stress Disorder (ASD) is a powerful and unconscious physical,
emotional and mental reaction that often occurs within one month after exposure
to an extreme traumatic stressor.
Not all victims react in the same way or with the same intensity. Often the
intensity of the reaction seems to have little relationship to the severity of
the event which has caused the stress. You may have a profoundly powerful
reaction to an event which seems much less serious to your friends or family.
Another person may seem totally non-stressed after an event which seems
overwhelming to others.
Some victims regain a relatively high degree of self-confidence and a sense
of safety and well-being fairly quickly, while some crime victims experience ASD
(Acute Stress Disorder) as a result of their victimization. Such a reaction may
result in depression, anger, fear, detachment from friends or from the world, or
helplessness.
Common Physical Symptoms
Common short-term physical symptoms of ASD may include:
- Nausea
- Shortness of breath
- Headaches
- Lack of energy
- Weight loss or gain
- Hyperventilation
- Change in sleeping or eating patterns
- Rapid pulse
Mental and Emotional Responses
These may include:
- Embarrassment
- Feelings of guilt
- Intrusive thinking (mind wandering, flashbacks to the event, or sense of
reliving event)
- Nightmares
- Avoidance of places/activities/people that remind you of the trauma
- Mood swings (sudden and unprovoked fear, anger, crying, irritability,
giddiness)
- Poor concentration
- Forgetfulness or memory lapses
- Difficulty showing emotion
- Inability to recall an important aspect of trauma
- Disinterest in previously valued activities
- Exaggerated startle response
Coping with a Traumatic Event
Successfully coping with a traumatic event is primarily related to three
factors:
- Your perception of the type and severity of the event which disrupted
your life.
How your put the traumatic event into perspective is important. In an
attempt to make sense out of what happened, it is important that you do not
blame yourself. It is also important to understand that strong emotional
reactions are common after a traumatic event. The feelings may be new and
scary, but they will not last. However, that does not mean tht there will not
be ups and owns along the way to recovery. Time will heal -- there is light at
the end of the tunnel.
- Your willingness to talk about the event.
It is important that you be willing to talk about the event with others.
Open communication will assist in your recovery. Only you can decide who
you'll talk to, when you will talk to that person, and how much detail you'll
provide.
- Your ability to handle everyday stressors.
The more you deal with everyday stressors, the more likely you are to heal
quicker.
Tips for Recovery
There are several things that you can do to assist yourself in recovery.
- Remain in touch with friends and loved ones.
Sometimes there is a tendency for victims to pull away from interactions
with others. Often, friends or loved ones do not know what to say and, as a
consequence, they either say nothing or say something to which the victim
reacts negatively. It may seem to you that friends have abandoned you. You can
help by telling friends what you need from them; i.e., "I feel really
uncomfortable with physical contact right now," "I appreciate it
when you just hold me without asking a lot of questions", or "I'd
appreciate if it you would call me every day and just ask me how I'm
doing."
- Return to a regular routine as soon as possible.
When something terrifying or incomprehensible happens, the victim's
immediate perception is that everything is dangerous and out of control and
that he/she is never safe. Although these feelings are
understandable, they may have been distorted by the overwhelming nature of the
event that took place. It is important to maintain at least part of your
normal routine. it will help you to deal with those "out of control"
feelings. If you can maintain at least part of a normal routine, you can begin
to deal with these feelings. Little by little, by going to work, shopping,
driving, eating, being with family members, exercising, etc., a more healthy
and accurate perception of life begins to redevelop. You being to realize that
not all the world is dangerous and not everyone is out to get you. With these
little successes, you slowly regain self-confidence and start to regain
"emotional equilibrium" or stability.
- Find some "normal things" to do, even if they are
different from the types of activity enjoyed prior to the traumatic event.
You may not want to participate in relatively complicated human experiences
such as going out for drinks, dating, or having sex. However, participating in
more simple and routine activities like going to a mall, going out to eat with
friends, going to church, or going to a movie may help reinforce a more
realistic perception of the world. You may need a friend to act as a social
coordinator for a few weeks to suggest and initiate some safe casual
activities.
- Get information about the case.
Even if there is not an identified suspect, talking with the police or
detectives can help you begin to regain some sense of control. Sometimes
information that is seemingly unimportant can be helpful to the police
investigation.
If the suspect is identified and criminal charges are possible, the
prosecutor and courts will be involved. Your cooperation will be vital to
successful prosecution.
- If things do not seem to be getting better within a few weeks, you
should consider seeking outside resources to support you and assist in the
recovery.
A strong emotional response to a traumatic event is not abnormal. However,
if you feel you are not healing or are still feeling overwhelmed by what
happened, it may be good to at least consult with an experienced counselor who
will be able to assess the severity of your symptoms, provide some feedback or
suggestions, and give appropriate directions.
Helping Victims Become Survivors
The Mesa Police Department's Victim Services Unit can refer you to other
appropriate helping professionals or organizations according to your specific
needs.
Options for assistance include other victim assistance programs, mental
health agencies, psychologists, counselors, psychiatrists, or self-help
organizations.
Many self-help organizations are specific to certain types of situations.
Examples of local groups include: Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), Sudden
Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), Survivors of Suicide (SOS), The Compassionate
Friends (for anyone who has lost a child through death), and Parents of Murdered
Children (POMC). Other groups exist for rape victims, adults molested as
children, and for those who a grieving the death of a loved one.
You may be eligible for financial assistance from the Crime Victim
Compensation Program. Simply applying does not guarantee an award; certain
conditions must be met. However, this may be a viable resource for you.
Assistance can be provided to victims of violent crime who need help with:
- Funeral expenses
- Wage loss (federal minimum wage)
- Medical and dental expenses (hospital, prescriptions, physicians,
ambulance, etc.)
- Mental health counseling expenses
Contact the Crime Victim Compensation Program at (602) 506-4955 for an
application and additional information.